Saturday, February 9, 2013

Friday, February 8, 2013

Something To Think About


     A worried woman went to her gynecologist and said:

     "Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even one year old, and I'm pregnant again. I don't want kids so close together."

     So the doctor said: "Okay, and what do you want me to do?"

     She said: "I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this."

     The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence, he said to the lady: "I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you, too."

     She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request.

     Then he continued: "You see, in order for you not to have to take care of two babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is. There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms."

     The lady was horrified and said: "No, doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child!"

     I agree," the doctor replied. "But you seemed to be okay with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution."     

     The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point.

     He convinced the mom that there is no difference between killing a child that's already been born and killing one that's still in the womb. The crime is the same!

6 Months Old

     Today my daughter is six months old! Time has flown by so fast. It is amazing to see how much a little person can learn in such a short amount of time. I swear she is the happiest baby on earth with how much she giggles and smiles. So much personality. I love you baby girl and look forward to the many years ahead of us. <3

Emma's Story

     I decided to go back and visit the boarding school in early October of last year. Emma and my dad went with me. When we got there the girls were watching a video on abortion. At the end of the movie they were asked if their views on abortion had changed. Many of the replies were that they no longer agreed with abortion unless the girl was raped or didn't know who the biological father of the baby was.

     I was then invited up to tell my story to the girls. When I was finished I told them I was going to tell Emma's story as well. I told them that the baby that they were just calling the most beautiful and cutest baby alive would not be here today if I had gotten an abortion for the reasons that they had said it was okay to get an abortion. Not only did I not know who Emma's biological father was, but one of her possible daddies is the man who raped me.

     I don't know if I changed every girls views on abortion, but I do know that I changed some. I don't believe in abortion, but I don't judge those who do. It makes me cry when I hear about abortions, because now I picture my beautiful little daughter, ripped into a bunch of little pieces, the life and joy gone from her face, just lying there in the trash.

     Even though I had multiple people around me, including one of the possible baby dadies, telling me to get an abortion. I was told to get one every day up until I started dating Kyle and was able to get away from those kind of people. Not once during those days did I even consider it. This was a life and mine to take care of. I was not going to fail my responsibilities as a parent before my daughter had the chance to take her first breath. I've never regretted giving birth to her and keeping her to raise myself. She is my biggest blessing.

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Q and A

     Feel free to ask any questions you might have! I will answer any questions asked so long as they are appropriate.

     One question that was asked: "Is Kyle Emma's biological father?"

     A: No! We know for sure that Kyle is not the biological father of Emma. She does have his last         name and he is on the birth certificate as her father.

Valentines Day

     What are your plans for Valentines Day? Do you have a special someone to spend it with? That's okay if you don't, you can still have fun and EAT SUGAR! 

     Valentines Day is a special day for me. It marks one year since Kyle and I announced our relationship. Nothing too special, but still a little bit.

     We don't have a lot of money this year, but that;s okay. A home cooked meal followed by cake under candle light will still make for a romantic evening. And home made cards are special. I love when my husband makes me cards. He's so good at the poems! 

     Please feel free to comment your Valentines Day ideas and/or plans. I'd love to hear them. I might even post some of your ideas. If you don't want your ideas re-posted please let me know.

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